The Genius (INTP)
Geniuses are the quintessential philosophers and independent thinkers. They are logical, objective, open-minded, imaginative, original, honest, and low maintenance. Geniuses are addicted to new information and a never-ending search for truth. Not often one to sugarcoat things, they can sometimes leave conversations with awkward silences, but you can count on their honesty. But beneath their aura of intellect and busy mind is an intensely loving and loyal heart.
private and withdrawn
loathe rules and guidelines
😍 Attracted By
😡 Pet Peeves
🐥 Mating Call
Usually aloof and reserved, if Geniuses have a crush on you, they will seem warmer and more responsive. They'll actually respond to your messages, whereas if they didn't like you, they'd likely forget your name even if you've met ten times. You can also expect shy smiles and excuses to be near you. They'll be interested in your mind, and ask you what your opinion is on various topics to get to know you. You'll find them especially interested and curious whenever you have something thought-provoking to share. You may feel weirdly flattered by their attention, even if you're not totally sure why. They will go out of their comfort zone to do the basic courtship rituals they usually can't be bothered to do. What may seem like normal social behavior is them putting the effort into getting to know you.
😘 Flirting Tips
Feel free to take the lead and guide the conversation socially, which will put them at ease.
Help get them out of their shell and their minds.They'll love you for this.
Stimulate their minds with thought-provoking and philosophical conversation. They'll be more interested in you and the date.
Show them your competence. They appreciate organized and competent people who can take charge, as they're usually passive.
Invite them out on a date in a natural setting that's not too loud. Their ideal date is one that happens naturally, evolving from daily activities.
Be direct when indicating you're interested in them. Otherwise, they might not even notice your signals if you're too subtle.
Don't urge them to smile. They might not look like it, but they're comfortable.
Don't push them to socialize above what they're comfortable doing. Not saying much is their way of being comfortable, unless in an intriguing thought-provoking conversation.
Avoid small talk or asking them about their favorite celebrities or pop gossip. It'll bore them.
Don't be overemotional or passive-aggressive. They can't stand irrationality and believe everything can be handled logically. Try to discuss your feelings calmly.
Don't try to manipulate them or play emotional games. They'll cut their losses rationally and move on.
Don't play hard to get. You may end up waiting a long time because they might not even notice. You'll have to be more direct and clear.
Don't invite them on a traditional date at a fancy restaurant forcing them to converse awkwardly with a stranger. This will put them under pressure and won't allow them to be themselves.
Don't patronize their intelligence. It is especially insulting to Geniuses.
Don't rush them toward making a decision. They don't like being rushed because they like to take their time to think things through.
Don't try to force them to discuss their feelings early on in the relationship. They will need time before they're ready.
💍 Relationship Material
Don't overschedule their time or try to micro-manage them or control them.
Be loyal, authentic and honest.
Show interest in intellectual pursuits.
Don't try to force them to notice the small details of everyday life all the time. They're more concerned with the big picture.
Be open to discussing untraditional ideas and perspectives.
Respect their privacy and independence.
Understand that they're not as emotionally expressive, but it doesn't mean they don't care.
Don't pressure them to make big commitments before they're ready and have had ample time to think about it.
⚽ Likely Interests
sleeping a lot
🎁 Love Languages
1. Quality Time
2. Words of Affirmation
3. Physical Touch
4. Acts of Service
🧠 Love Philosophy
Geniuses enjoy partners who are open-minded and intellectually curious, people who can share conversations with them about new ideas, possibilities, and theories while in a loyal and warm relationship. They want a relationship where they are mentally inspired and fulfilled and free to pursue their ideas without feeling stifled. They also value partners that share a sense of humor and are as loyally committed as they are. They are people who value their own intelligence and need a partner who can appreciate their creativity and ingenuity.Often called the dreamy professors, Geniuses are usually private and highly independent and can often be found in their own mental worlds, daydreaming about or questioning a subject that has captivated their interests. They need a partner that can allow them the personal space and time to work through these mental tangents, and not try to over-manage their time or confine them to limiting rules. Geniuses are direct and straightforward, believing the most rational thing to do is to be completely logical and honest and keep emotions out of it, seeing anything else as counterproductive. They are turned off by people who are overly needy, emotionally over-reactive, and manipulative.Geniuses are loved for their easygoing, logical nature. Sometimes also called the warmest robots, Geniuses are not the most emotionally expressive personality. Sharing their feelings and emotions make them uncomfortable and feel to them as an embarrassing and illogical display. They usually need time before they can open up emotionally. This is not to say they don't care; they actually do care, feel, and love, quite intensely once they set their hearts on someone. However, they are more likely to express their love in the form of actions like spending time with you, solving your problems, and supporting you, rather than through words.Partners should know that the world of emotions and feelings is a strange place for Geniuses, and they might not pick up on emotional cues and sentiment others may expect them to. They are typically in their heads, immersed in an analytical state of ideas, theories, and experiments, and usually, just don't pay as much attention to them. It's essential to be patient and direct when you can to let them know how you're feeling because they won't be able to mindread. Expecting them to just know will likely frustrate them.
🌹 Ideal Date
Geniuses enjoy mentally inspiring and stimulating dates, whether that be a discussion of ideas and world events over coffee, a playful exchange over an intimate board game, or learning and exploring something new together. They want to spark their imagination and use their creativity in an activity that allows them to be the best of themselves. They also love it when their dates take the lead socially and ask them out. These personality types are chill and often enjoy a low-pressure, casual date, so long as it allows for conversation. It can be a quiet afternoon together at a book store or enjoying late night conversation after watching a movie.
😱 Relationship Fear
Geniuses' biggest relationship fear is losing their autonomy and personal freedom. Rigid rules, structures, and traditions expected by their partner can leave Geniuses feeling trapped, anxious, and irritable. They need a lot of space and time to themselves to unwind and explore their own thoughts and hobbies. They are most relaxed when taking their time to enjoy their own mental tangents. They worry they'll end up with someone overly needy who tries to micro-manage their lives and overschedule them.
🤞 Secret Desire
Geniuses are creative and independent thinkers who have a talent for dissecting the root cause of a problem and seeing things in a different way. Although they can appear aloof, detached, and unconcerned with feelings, deep down, they crave emotional connection and warmth. They also wish they were better at social conversation, emotional affairs, and reading and understanding people. They can be frustrated sometimes because others misunderstand them as cold and robotic, or as having no feelings, when in fact, they feel very deeply, but just have trouble expressing it.
🤝 Friendship Philosophy
INTPs seek authenticity and intellectual depth in finding potential friends. They intentionally keep their connections few but excitingly meaningful. These personalities effortlessly inspire others to remain true to themselves and ignore picture-perfect societal expectations. Geniuses enjoy being around other co-oddballs because it is where they feel best understood and accepted. They do not mind having off-the-wall intellectual discussions. Showing affection may not be their strong suit, but they do so through assisting others in resolving difficulties and offering logical advice.
🧘 Personal Outlook
INTPs are logical and practical in their approach to life. Geniuses tend to rationalize everything they see to make sense within the context of their highly analytical minds. To them, sentimentality may not be as appealing as knowing the empirical evidence and truth behind a situation.
🤙 Hanging Out
It’s a great idea to bring your INTP friends on a chill picnic or aesthetic art exhibits. Fret not, for Geniuses value quality time more than any fancy get-togethers.
🗣 Communication Style
INTPs can be distant and impersonal when conversing with others. They conduct themselves in an objective, polite, and direct manner. Geniuses meticulously calculate their words and actions to avoid sounding illogical and flawed. They may sometimes be selective of the people they talk to and only show enthusiasm once they meet like-minded souls.
People often mistake INTPs as incapable of maintaining genuine relationships due to their socially awkward demeanor. However, under the right circumstances, they become lively, warm, and accepting of the few ones they feel deeply connected with. Only then will Geniuses be able to show who they truly are after having enough time to adapt, loosen up, and build rapport.
INTPs do not back down in the face of conflict. They confront problems head-on without showing any hints of vulnerability amidst pressure and distress. Before making a decision, Geniuses examine all viewpoints to remain fair and objective.